by Chris Morton
Planning your Chester wedding day is undoubtedly a truly special time in your life. Making sure that the arrangements are all perfect is crucial so that you can enjoy the experience with your partner.
A beautiful venue will make the Chester wedding photographer's job much easier and the result will be some spectacular pictures of your day.
Your decision on which Chester wedding venue to choose will reflect on your everlasting memories of your perfect day. Finding the perfect wedding venue in Chester may help you on your way to the best start for your new marriage so take your time to choose. It is a good idea to make sure that the wedding venue that you select can accommodate all your needs so that you can relax and enjoy the biggest celebration. Attending a Chester Wedding Show is a good use of your time and will help with your choices.
Some thought should be taken as to where you will have your Chester wedding venue - will you choose city centre or go slightly further afield into the beautiful surrounding Cheshire countryside? How far will your wedding guests have to travel? Does the venue have accommodation and plenty of parking?
Chester has a fantastic and romantic history and this can bring people from further away to experience their special day in a Chester wedding venue.
Inviting your friends and family to the city of Chester is brilliant because it is not just your Chester wedding and the excellent venue you have chosen that they will experience. There is plenty to entertain your guests throughout Chester and Cheshire.
Once you have reached the all important conclusion about which Chester wedding venue will host your special day a big chunk of your wedding planning will be arranged. Most wedding venues offer packages which may even include organising decorations, menus, catering, plans for the day's itinerary, right through to organising entertainment during the occasion for you and your guests.
Reading reviews, looking through photographs and visiting the hotels is a great idea before you book.
Here are just a few of the wedding venues which feature at the Directory of Chester:
De Vere Carden Park Hotel, Chester Grosvenor Hotel and Spa, Crabwall Manor Hotel, Mollington Banastre Hotel and Spa, Queen Hotel, Chester Ramada Hotel, Rowton Hall Country House Hotel
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Silver Wedding Favors
By Mae Andrea
Unless you have a big budget then I am not talking about solid silver wedding favors here, but simply silver colored. That said, silver plated favors may be within your price range.
Silver favors can make very stylish gifts and one’s which your guests are bound to appreciate more than any other (except edible favors that is!). So if silver is your color then here is my suggestions for some stylish silver wedding favors:
- Candle Holders: Ever popular candles make excellent gifts, particularly scented votive candles which are small enough to fit in most boxes or bags. So if you want to give candles include a stylish silver candle holder alongside it.
- Trinket boxes: There are many styles and designs available so you should be able to find one to fit with your wedding style or theme. Try to find silver plated versions which keep their shine for longer and have a more quality feel to them.
- Wedding Bells: Wedding bells are a common sight at traditional weddings and favor stores often stock a choice of sizes and style to choose from. Tradition has it that when the happy couple enters the room, the guests are to ring the bells and the couple has to kiss. If the idea of hundreds of ringing bells doesn’t appeal to you then be sure to buy silent versions!
- Photograph Frames: One of the most common silver favors you will come across. There are many sizes and designs to choose from, although most will buy the frames that accommodate place cards and double them as favors as well.
- Bottle openers: More silver colored than silver plated so try to find ones with a romantic design such as hearts or keys with a heart shaped top.
- Bookmarks: Stylish and practical, there are many different designs of bookmark available from favor stores so you shouldn’t have too much difficulty in coordinating them with your wedding.
- Bud Vases: These elegant vases were once a common sight on ladies dressing tables, into which would be place a single rose bud. Revive the tradition for your female guests with a silver bud vase and silk rose bud (or fresh if you can afford them).
- Silver edibles: Ok so this may be cheating a bit! But silver colored candies can make a handy substitute if you cannot find a suitable favor made from the real thing. Try silver colored chocolate dragees or almonds in a silver box.
- Silver Rings: Finally if all else fails you could tie two silver colored rings to your favor packaging with ribbon. You will find these available from craft stores in large packets, so they are an inexpensive solution!
Honeymoon Planning
By: James Gunaseelan
Just like planning a written report or news article, you have to know the who, what, when, where and how in regards to your honeymoon planning. The who and what portions of the planning are no-brainers as the who refers to you and your intended while the what refers to the honeymoon. So do you have any ideas as to the when, where and how in referring to your honeymoon planning?
Typically, most honeymoons occur within a few days of the wedding ceremony although that is not always the case. Some people will plan the wedding based on school or work schedules and plan a honeymoon trip later when both parties can get a large chunk of time off for vacation. Others will decide where they want to go first and then decide on the when in regards to honeymoon planning. If you and your intended have your hearts set on a skiing vacation, then the obvious when in regards to honeymoon planning will be sometimes in the winter months. However, in seeking a tropical destination, the when could occur at any time of year.
Knowing where you are going is crucial to the where part of honeymoon planning. For strict budgets, you will likely stick close to home with the idea of going all out in a few years on a more extravagant vacation. Looser purse strings might see you venturing abroad to foreign countries either by cruise ship or by plane. The where in honeymoon planning is also influenced by what you and your intended’s likes and dislikes are in terms of weather and available activities. Tropical settings offer up the most opportunities for newlyweds and they are also romantic as well.
Unfortunately, the buck sometimes stops right where you don’t want it to – your dream destination for your honeymoon. Unless you want to be in debt for a few years while you pay off your dream honeymoon, it pays to be more sensible in your honeymoon planning. There is no reason not to choose a destination based on what your budget will allow and still plan that dream destination vacation for a later date. For some couples, a cruise makes economical sense in terms of the how of honeymoon planning. Your food, drink, activities and accommodations are not only under one roof but also part of one price. Plus, with this type of honeymoon, you can still see new places each time the ship makes port during your cruise. Let your budget dictate what you can and cannot afford in terms of your honeymoon destination. Honeymoon planning doesn’t have to be rocket science, just plain old common sense with a hint of dreams and romance thrown in.
Just like planning a written report or news article, you have to know the who, what, when, where and how in regards to your honeymoon planning. The who and what portions of the planning are no-brainers as the who refers to you and your intended while the what refers to the honeymoon. So do you have any ideas as to the when, where and how in referring to your honeymoon planning?
Typically, most honeymoons occur within a few days of the wedding ceremony although that is not always the case. Some people will plan the wedding based on school or work schedules and plan a honeymoon trip later when both parties can get a large chunk of time off for vacation. Others will decide where they want to go first and then decide on the when in regards to honeymoon planning. If you and your intended have your hearts set on a skiing vacation, then the obvious when in regards to honeymoon planning will be sometimes in the winter months. However, in seeking a tropical destination, the when could occur at any time of year.
Knowing where you are going is crucial to the where part of honeymoon planning. For strict budgets, you will likely stick close to home with the idea of going all out in a few years on a more extravagant vacation. Looser purse strings might see you venturing abroad to foreign countries either by cruise ship or by plane. The where in honeymoon planning is also influenced by what you and your intended’s likes and dislikes are in terms of weather and available activities. Tropical settings offer up the most opportunities for newlyweds and they are also romantic as well.
Unfortunately, the buck sometimes stops right where you don’t want it to – your dream destination for your honeymoon. Unless you want to be in debt for a few years while you pay off your dream honeymoon, it pays to be more sensible in your honeymoon planning. There is no reason not to choose a destination based on what your budget will allow and still plan that dream destination vacation for a later date. For some couples, a cruise makes economical sense in terms of the how of honeymoon planning. Your food, drink, activities and accommodations are not only under one roof but also part of one price. Plus, with this type of honeymoon, you can still see new places each time the ship makes port during your cruise. Let your budget dictate what you can and cannot afford in terms of your honeymoon destination. Honeymoon planning doesn’t have to be rocket science, just plain old common sense with a hint of dreams and romance thrown in.
A-Z In Wedding Planning
by Amy nutt
Many brides become exhausted and nervous before the wedding, because they fear that things are not going to go as planned. They worry about tripping over their gown, falling on their shoes, messing up their make-up, but most of all, they worry that they have forgotten something in the planning stages. In order to alleviate those fears, the bride and anyone who is helping with the planning can follow some tips to prevent anything from going wrong.
• Invest in a wedding planner book - available in all bookstores.
• Make a list of everything you need to do and at what stage of the planning process. This will depend upon the amount of time between the commencement of your engagement and the wedding. The more time you have, the less stressful the planning will be.
• Don't make the mistake of thinking you can do everything. Enlist the help of any friends and family who offer. Encourage your fiancé to join you in the planning process, especially with the guest list. It is his wedding, too, so he should not be exempt from helping with the decision-making.
• As you complete each task, cross it off your list and go on to the next thing. Remember to have a list of things that need to be completed before the wedding, as well as a list for those things you wish to confirm a few days before the wedding.
• If you're planning to have a band instead of just a disc jockey, allow enough time for auditions, unless you have heard the band. You don't want to hire someone who advertises a good price and then find out they do not play the music you want or are amateurish and not quite ready for professional gigs. You want to pay for talent, not someone who is just learning to perform.
It is difficult work to plan a wedding, but the more time you have to plan it, the less stressful it will be. Even if you have been dating for a long time and are in a hurry to make everything legal, don't rush into marriage. Enjoy your engagement and allow yourselves an opportunity to carefully plan your wedding. By taking your time instead of rushing, you stand less chance of forgetting something, and you can take your time obtaining quotes and locating all of the things you need for your wedding.
For wedding planning ideas, the Internet is a great source of information. In lieu of a wedding planner, many sites offer complete wedding planning without the expense of someone planning the event for you. You can buy everything from invitations to decorations and even wedding attire. In addition, you can plan your wedding trip and not even have to leave your home. That makes the process more relaxing, less tiresome, and allows you to plan everything when you are free to do so without worrying about store hours. Planning your wedding online leaves you with little to do in person except for choosing your dress and confirming deliveries such as flowers, food, and even the photographer.
Many brides become exhausted and nervous before the wedding, because they fear that things are not going to go as planned. They worry about tripping over their gown, falling on their shoes, messing up their make-up, but most of all, they worry that they have forgotten something in the planning stages. In order to alleviate those fears, the bride and anyone who is helping with the planning can follow some tips to prevent anything from going wrong.
• Invest in a wedding planner book - available in all bookstores.
• Make a list of everything you need to do and at what stage of the planning process. This will depend upon the amount of time between the commencement of your engagement and the wedding. The more time you have, the less stressful the planning will be.
• Don't make the mistake of thinking you can do everything. Enlist the help of any friends and family who offer. Encourage your fiancé to join you in the planning process, especially with the guest list. It is his wedding, too, so he should not be exempt from helping with the decision-making.
• As you complete each task, cross it off your list and go on to the next thing. Remember to have a list of things that need to be completed before the wedding, as well as a list for those things you wish to confirm a few days before the wedding.
• If you're planning to have a band instead of just a disc jockey, allow enough time for auditions, unless you have heard the band. You don't want to hire someone who advertises a good price and then find out they do not play the music you want or are amateurish and not quite ready for professional gigs. You want to pay for talent, not someone who is just learning to perform.
It is difficult work to plan a wedding, but the more time you have to plan it, the less stressful it will be. Even if you have been dating for a long time and are in a hurry to make everything legal, don't rush into marriage. Enjoy your engagement and allow yourselves an opportunity to carefully plan your wedding. By taking your time instead of rushing, you stand less chance of forgetting something, and you can take your time obtaining quotes and locating all of the things you need for your wedding.
For wedding planning ideas, the Internet is a great source of information. In lieu of a wedding planner, many sites offer complete wedding planning without the expense of someone planning the event for you. You can buy everything from invitations to decorations and even wedding attire. In addition, you can plan your wedding trip and not even have to leave your home. That makes the process more relaxing, less tiresome, and allows you to plan everything when you are free to do so without worrying about store hours. Planning your wedding online leaves you with little to do in person except for choosing your dress and confirming deliveries such as flowers, food, and even the photographer.
Fairytale Wedding: Planning the Wedding of Your Dreams
by juhlin youlein
Planning your Phoenix wedding is an exciting experience especially when it's a fairytale wedding. Fantasy weddings are probably one of the most popular themed weddings. Every single girl has dreamed for years of walking down the aisle to her Prince Charming in her stunning ball gown feeling like a real fairytale princess. It is a sight to behold and a pleasurable memory to relive in your wedding photography Phoenix. It is a long lived fantasy which will finally become a reality.
Fairytale wedding creates the atmosphere of royalty and romance. Let your imagination be your guide as you plan a fairytale wedding. There is absolutely no limit to the creative ideas you can incorporate in every aspect of the wedding. Here are a few ideas you can use to make that fantasy wedding seem like it came straight out from a fairytale book.
• A great idea is to arrive in the wedding ceremony in a carriage pulled by a white horse.
• When choosing for that perfect wedding dress, go for sophistication and glamour. Ball gowns complete with a petticoat will look absolutely beautiful. For a more full-out princess look, do not forget to wear a tiara, opera-length gloves and a floor length veil.
• The bride's hair with look romantic in a half or full updo with cascading ringlets.
• The shoes should be strappy and sparkly or you can still opt for wearing glass slippers for a more princess-like effect.
• For the bridesmaids, choose dreamy dresses that match your color scheme.
• Black tuxedos for the groomsmen will look stunning next to the bridesmaids. For the groom to stand out and look more like a Prince Charming, a white tuxedo is worth considering.
• The invitation is an essential element in depicting the fantasy theme. It can feature elements like carriages, castles or glass slippers. But if you refer something more formal, choose elegant fonts and style for the wedding invitations.
• To complete the fairytale experience, book your ceremony and reception in a castle. If you do not have the access to a castle then a ballroom is close enough.
• Centerpieces for this type of wedding should be grand. Sparkling ice sculptures are perfect centerpieces that can create a dramatic effect. If you live in a warmer climate and ice sculptures are not an option, use candelabras or towering vases filled with fantasy floral arrangements.
• Classic choices for flowers arrangements are usually used in this type of wedding. Roses are the popular choice. The bride's bouquet will typically be a hand tied bouquet of roses or a cascading style of lilies. Flowers and candles are essential in pulling off a fairytale look.
• Make a grand entrance at the reception by going down a spiral staircase or by using a spotlight. A romantic waltz for your first dance with your fiancé will definitely add a personal touch to the wedding.
• Do not forget to set the mood by your choice of music. Hire a harpist or a string quartet at least during the ceremony. Then later on, let the DJ play songs that will create a dreamy atmosphere.
Planning a fantasy wedding is an awesome experience. There are so many fairytales to choose from and it can sometimes be an overwhelming task. The plan is to create an atmosphere of fantasy and enchantment. Imagine how the whole illusion of a princess bride will look in your wedding photography Phoenix. It will be a wonderful wedding experience not only for you and your husband but all your guests as well.
Planning your Phoenix wedding is an exciting experience especially when it's a fairytale wedding. Fantasy weddings are probably one of the most popular themed weddings. Every single girl has dreamed for years of walking down the aisle to her Prince Charming in her stunning ball gown feeling like a real fairytale princess. It is a sight to behold and a pleasurable memory to relive in your wedding photography Phoenix. It is a long lived fantasy which will finally become a reality.
Fairytale wedding creates the atmosphere of royalty and romance. Let your imagination be your guide as you plan a fairytale wedding. There is absolutely no limit to the creative ideas you can incorporate in every aspect of the wedding. Here are a few ideas you can use to make that fantasy wedding seem like it came straight out from a fairytale book.
• A great idea is to arrive in the wedding ceremony in a carriage pulled by a white horse.
• When choosing for that perfect wedding dress, go for sophistication and glamour. Ball gowns complete with a petticoat will look absolutely beautiful. For a more full-out princess look, do not forget to wear a tiara, opera-length gloves and a floor length veil.
• The bride's hair with look romantic in a half or full updo with cascading ringlets.
• The shoes should be strappy and sparkly or you can still opt for wearing glass slippers for a more princess-like effect.
• For the bridesmaids, choose dreamy dresses that match your color scheme.
• Black tuxedos for the groomsmen will look stunning next to the bridesmaids. For the groom to stand out and look more like a Prince Charming, a white tuxedo is worth considering.
• The invitation is an essential element in depicting the fantasy theme. It can feature elements like carriages, castles or glass slippers. But if you refer something more formal, choose elegant fonts and style for the wedding invitations.
• To complete the fairytale experience, book your ceremony and reception in a castle. If you do not have the access to a castle then a ballroom is close enough.
• Centerpieces for this type of wedding should be grand. Sparkling ice sculptures are perfect centerpieces that can create a dramatic effect. If you live in a warmer climate and ice sculptures are not an option, use candelabras or towering vases filled with fantasy floral arrangements.
• Classic choices for flowers arrangements are usually used in this type of wedding. Roses are the popular choice. The bride's bouquet will typically be a hand tied bouquet of roses or a cascading style of lilies. Flowers and candles are essential in pulling off a fairytale look.
• Make a grand entrance at the reception by going down a spiral staircase or by using a spotlight. A romantic waltz for your first dance with your fiancé will definitely add a personal touch to the wedding.
• Do not forget to set the mood by your choice of music. Hire a harpist or a string quartet at least during the ceremony. Then later on, let the DJ play songs that will create a dreamy atmosphere.
Planning a fantasy wedding is an awesome experience. There are so many fairytales to choose from and it can sometimes be an overwhelming task. The plan is to create an atmosphere of fantasy and enchantment. Imagine how the whole illusion of a princess bride will look in your wedding photography Phoenix. It will be a wonderful wedding experience not only for you and your husband but all your guests as well.
Planning Wedding Songs - 3 Points To Consider While Making Your Plans
By abishek
Wedding songs are the life and soul of your wedding celebrations. They set the mood of the celebrations from the beginning to the end. Choosing the best songs for your wedding day celebrations can enhance the joyous mood of the day and make it a memorable event.
The weddings of the past featured traditional wedding songs. Today, couples can choose from a wide range of music. Choosing the best songs for their wedding celebrations is the most exciting aspect of the wedding day celebrations.
Couples usually select songs that are deeply significant to them in a special way. Playing such songs on the wedding day makes it a unique and personal experience for them. For example, a couple could select a song that they heard during their first date or a few songs of their favorite singer.
Consider the following points when you select your wedding day songs:
1. Venue
Select songs that suit the venue you have chosen for your wedding day celebrations. Wedding ceremonies are usually conducted in a church, and couples must first ascertain whether the church authorities allow their favorite music to be played within the church premises. Some churches are particular about the type of songs that should played during the services.
Other venues might not have placed any constraint on the type of songs that can be played. In any case, choose sober songs for your wedding ceremony, not the type of songs that might be in sharp contrast to the solemnity of the occassion. You can play all the amusing and entertaining music you like at your reception.
2. Music Band
Select a good DJ or music band that will create great wedding music for you. If you have decided to have a traditional wedding, you might hire a classical ensemble to play at your reception. If you are having a quiet wedding at home in the company of your friends and family members, you could get a flute trio, a solo pianist, or a string quartet to play your classical wedding music.
3. Planning Wedding Songs
Couples have to select several songs for their wedding. In fact, you have to select different types of songs for six different aspects of the wedding.
Prelude music is joyous and festive and is played chiefly to welcome family members and friends to your wedding ceremony.
The wedding procession marks the beginning of the ceremony, and the songs played at this time are to welcome the gathering and to alert the guests that the bride is about to enter.
A bridal procession is the most important part of the ceremony. Many prefer the conventional bridal march. However, the practise of playing different type of music during it can make it a unique and memorable event. Besides, it is quite acceptable in the modern days.
During the interludes, you can use a variety of songs to enhance the emotional charging of the environment.
Festive wedding songs should played during the recessional because the music is to celebrate the fact that the couple are now officially united.
The music of the postlude is more grateful, full of thanks to the guests who have made it to the wedding ceremony.
Wedding songs are the life and soul of your wedding celebrations. They set the mood of the celebrations from the beginning to the end. Choosing the best songs for your wedding day celebrations can enhance the joyous mood of the day and make it a memorable event.
The weddings of the past featured traditional wedding songs. Today, couples can choose from a wide range of music. Choosing the best songs for their wedding celebrations is the most exciting aspect of the wedding day celebrations.
Couples usually select songs that are deeply significant to them in a special way. Playing such songs on the wedding day makes it a unique and personal experience for them. For example, a couple could select a song that they heard during their first date or a few songs of their favorite singer.
Consider the following points when you select your wedding day songs:
1. Venue
Select songs that suit the venue you have chosen for your wedding day celebrations. Wedding ceremonies are usually conducted in a church, and couples must first ascertain whether the church authorities allow their favorite music to be played within the church premises. Some churches are particular about the type of songs that should played during the services.
Other venues might not have placed any constraint on the type of songs that can be played. In any case, choose sober songs for your wedding ceremony, not the type of songs that might be in sharp contrast to the solemnity of the occassion. You can play all the amusing and entertaining music you like at your reception.
2. Music Band
Select a good DJ or music band that will create great wedding music for you. If you have decided to have a traditional wedding, you might hire a classical ensemble to play at your reception. If you are having a quiet wedding at home in the company of your friends and family members, you could get a flute trio, a solo pianist, or a string quartet to play your classical wedding music.
3. Planning Wedding Songs
Couples have to select several songs for their wedding. In fact, you have to select different types of songs for six different aspects of the wedding.
Prelude music is joyous and festive and is played chiefly to welcome family members and friends to your wedding ceremony.
The wedding procession marks the beginning of the ceremony, and the songs played at this time are to welcome the gathering and to alert the guests that the bride is about to enter.
A bridal procession is the most important part of the ceremony. Many prefer the conventional bridal march. However, the practise of playing different type of music during it can make it a unique and memorable event. Besides, it is quite acceptable in the modern days.
During the interludes, you can use a variety of songs to enhance the emotional charging of the environment.
Festive wedding songs should played during the recessional because the music is to celebrate the fact that the couple are now officially united.
The music of the postlude is more grateful, full of thanks to the guests who have made it to the wedding ceremony.
Wedding Planning: A Must To Cherish The Memories Forever
Congratulations! Finally you are all set to enter into the wedlock. You have already finalized the date and now you are gearing up to plan your wedding ceremony. And I know, you want the occasion to be the best occasion of your life. For that you don't want to leave anything with imperfection. A wedding planning with assistance of a reputed wedding planner would be of great help in your quest to make your wedding an unforgettable event for not only you and your spouse but all guests.
The first and the foremost thing is to decide what kind of wedding you are planning for yourself. You must be clear about the theme that you would love to assign to your wedding.
Once you are clear about the theme of wedding you need to do your bridal preparation accordingly. Your wedding gown, your shoes and your make up all must gel with the theme. You can visit bridal stores to fetch out all that a bride needs on the occasion.
A theme wedding requires you to choose a venue that could be helpful in actualization of the theme that you have chosen for your wedding.
At the time of planning you would also decide on the type of floral arrangement on the venue. For that you may seek assistance of a florist having expertise in extending wedding services. For a theme wedding you are also needed to be very specific about the bridal bouquet. Orders must be given in advance.
Your groom's outfit preparations should also go hand in hand with your preparations. Your wedding planning also includes the number of guests that you would love to invite and accordingly you need to order invitation card. Seeing expected number of guests you should decide on reception and wedding return favors that you would offer to departing guests.
Decision on a wedding cake perfectly suited to the customized wedding is a difficult task. For that you will have to wander from one confectionery to another. Choose a cake that is in consonance with the personalized theme of wedding.
All wedding accessories must be shopped in advance at least two or three days prior the wedding.
However you must plan your wedding as per you budget so that you may not fall short of finances in the midst of preparations. If you really want the memory of your wedding to be cherished by your guests, you need to be very attentive towards pettiest things of the occasion. Music that goes well with the occasion and a beautiful wedding ambiance can add to the beauty and elegance of your marriage. A wedding poem or a beautifully sculpted wedding speech could turn on your guests.
I suggest you to plan out the best for your wedding. A well planned wedding would result in a perfect wedding ambiance with every thing perfect around. And I am sure you would love to get back to your past to enjoy beauty of your wedding moments.
The first and the foremost thing is to decide what kind of wedding you are planning for yourself. You must be clear about the theme that you would love to assign to your wedding.
Once you are clear about the theme of wedding you need to do your bridal preparation accordingly. Your wedding gown, your shoes and your make up all must gel with the theme. You can visit bridal stores to fetch out all that a bride needs on the occasion.
A theme wedding requires you to choose a venue that could be helpful in actualization of the theme that you have chosen for your wedding.
At the time of planning you would also decide on the type of floral arrangement on the venue. For that you may seek assistance of a florist having expertise in extending wedding services. For a theme wedding you are also needed to be very specific about the bridal bouquet. Orders must be given in advance.
Your groom's outfit preparations should also go hand in hand with your preparations. Your wedding planning also includes the number of guests that you would love to invite and accordingly you need to order invitation card. Seeing expected number of guests you should decide on reception and wedding return favors that you would offer to departing guests.
Decision on a wedding cake perfectly suited to the customized wedding is a difficult task. For that you will have to wander from one confectionery to another. Choose a cake that is in consonance with the personalized theme of wedding.
All wedding accessories must be shopped in advance at least two or three days prior the wedding.
However you must plan your wedding as per you budget so that you may not fall short of finances in the midst of preparations. If you really want the memory of your wedding to be cherished by your guests, you need to be very attentive towards pettiest things of the occasion. Music that goes well with the occasion and a beautiful wedding ambiance can add to the beauty and elegance of your marriage. A wedding poem or a beautifully sculpted wedding speech could turn on your guests.
I suggest you to plan out the best for your wedding. A well planned wedding would result in a perfect wedding ambiance with every thing perfect around. And I am sure you would love to get back to your past to enjoy beauty of your wedding moments.
Unique Wedding Venues - Wet, Wild & Wacky
By Shari Hearn
Want to get married in a unique wedding location that is as unique as the two of you? Forget the same-ol'-same-'ol venue and go for something wet, wild or wacky.
Wet
You have many choices when it comes to water weddings. You can have a submarine wedding in Hawaii, a snorkeling wedding in the Caribbean, or a wedding on a tall ship in Chicago. Or, you can push the envelope just a little bit further and go for something truly unique - a wedding in the world’s only underwater hotel.
The Jules’ Undersea Lodge in Key Largo, Florida is truly underwater, with guests having to scuba dive 21 feet beneath the surface of the sea and enter through an opening in the bottom of the lodge. Wedding ceremonies are held inside the lodge, which consists of a wet room entrance area, two bedrooms and a common room, which is a combination kitchen, dining and living room area. Imagine having your honeymoon underwater, snuggled in your bed while watching the fish pass by your window.
Your wedding ceremony is conducted by a notary public, who dives down for the service, followed by a toast and the cutting of the cake, which, yes, has remained dry. For dinner you are offered a caviar appetizer and choice of two entrees, either lobster or steak and a hearts of palm salad and dessert. Your meal is prepared by a chef who scuba dives to the lodge. The chef will also scuba dive to the lodge the following morning and prepare breakfast. The Jules’ Undersea Lodge wedding is perfect for those who wish to elope to an unusual location.
The cost for the Jules’ Undersea Lodge is $1,495 plus tax. If you have any extra guests attending the wedding you will be charged an additional $60 per guest. Call (305) 451-2353 for more information.
Wild
What could be more wild than a shotgun wedding or a wedding at a haunted hotel?
With a wedding and honeymoon in Oatman, Arizona, you get both. Where's Oatman, you ask? It's an historic ghost town 20 miles southeast of Laughlin, Nevada, formerly a thriving mining town during the gold rush. Oatman today is a tourist town with daily wild west shootouts and shotgun weddings. Oatman is also where you'll find the Oatman Hotel, where, in 1939, Clark Gable and Carole Lombard spent their wedding night.
It's said the Oatman Hotel is haunted by numerous spirits, including, some say, Clark Gable and Carole Lombard, a former chambermaid and an Irish miner who once lived there. It's said staff and guests of the hotel have heard the spirits of Gable and Lombard laughing from their honeymoon room. There are also reports of the sound of bagpipes coming from the room of the Irish miner, whose spirit is referred to as "Oatie"
For information regarding shotgun weddings, you can call 928-768-8063 or 928-768-3839. For reservations to The Oatman Hotel you can call 928-768-4408.
Another wedding venue which many consider haunted is Thayer's Historic Bed and Breakfast in Annandale, Minnesota, which is owned by a psychic, Sharon Gammell. Thayer's specializes in interactive mystery dinners, ghost huntings, psychic readings and small weddings, which, if you choose, can be officiated by Gammell. Built in 1895, Thayer's Historic Bed and Breakfast is said to be the home of several ghosts, including the original owners, Caroline and Gus Thayer and some of their friends. And, for you cat lovers, Thayer's is also the home of three resident ghost cats (as well as some living cats).
Annandale is just a little over an hour's drive from the Twin Cities International Airport. For more information call 800-944-6595.
Wacky
For one of the wackiest wedding experiences, try Star Trek the Experience at the Las Vegas Hilton, where you can have your ceremony on the Bridge of the USS Enterprise 1701-D. You minister will perform your wedding ceremony dressed in Starfleet outfits while intergalactic wedding music plays in the background. Depending on the Wedding package you choose, you can have your choice of one to three Star Trek characters present at your wedding: Klingon, Ferengi or BORG.
You can also choose to have your wedding reception inside Quark's Bar or the Captain's Lounge, depending on the size of your wedding party. You can have your choice of different reception menus, but I'd definitely go for the Romulan Warbird, which is a marinated chicken breast served with wild rice pilaf and seasonal vegetables. Wedding cakes come with the Star Trek logo on them.
Hopefully some of the above wedding ideas will either appeal to you, or get you thinking about other creative and unique ways to celebrate your wedding. Maybe wet, wild and wacky weddings aren't your thing. Maybe eloping to Hawaii or Las Vegas is what you want. Whatever you decide to do, make it special.
Want to get married in a unique wedding location that is as unique as the two of you? Forget the same-ol'-same-'ol venue and go for something wet, wild or wacky.
Wet
You have many choices when it comes to water weddings. You can have a submarine wedding in Hawaii, a snorkeling wedding in the Caribbean, or a wedding on a tall ship in Chicago. Or, you can push the envelope just a little bit further and go for something truly unique - a wedding in the world’s only underwater hotel.
The Jules’ Undersea Lodge in Key Largo, Florida is truly underwater, with guests having to scuba dive 21 feet beneath the surface of the sea and enter through an opening in the bottom of the lodge. Wedding ceremonies are held inside the lodge, which consists of a wet room entrance area, two bedrooms and a common room, which is a combination kitchen, dining and living room area. Imagine having your honeymoon underwater, snuggled in your bed while watching the fish pass by your window.
Your wedding ceremony is conducted by a notary public, who dives down for the service, followed by a toast and the cutting of the cake, which, yes, has remained dry. For dinner you are offered a caviar appetizer and choice of two entrees, either lobster or steak and a hearts of palm salad and dessert. Your meal is prepared by a chef who scuba dives to the lodge. The chef will also scuba dive to the lodge the following morning and prepare breakfast. The Jules’ Undersea Lodge wedding is perfect for those who wish to elope to an unusual location.
The cost for the Jules’ Undersea Lodge is $1,495 plus tax. If you have any extra guests attending the wedding you will be charged an additional $60 per guest. Call (305) 451-2353 for more information.
Wild
What could be more wild than a shotgun wedding or a wedding at a haunted hotel?
With a wedding and honeymoon in Oatman, Arizona, you get both. Where's Oatman, you ask? It's an historic ghost town 20 miles southeast of Laughlin, Nevada, formerly a thriving mining town during the gold rush. Oatman today is a tourist town with daily wild west shootouts and shotgun weddings. Oatman is also where you'll find the Oatman Hotel, where, in 1939, Clark Gable and Carole Lombard spent their wedding night.
It's said the Oatman Hotel is haunted by numerous spirits, including, some say, Clark Gable and Carole Lombard, a former chambermaid and an Irish miner who once lived there. It's said staff and guests of the hotel have heard the spirits of Gable and Lombard laughing from their honeymoon room. There are also reports of the sound of bagpipes coming from the room of the Irish miner, whose spirit is referred to as "Oatie"
For information regarding shotgun weddings, you can call 928-768-8063 or 928-768-3839. For reservations to The Oatman Hotel you can call 928-768-4408.
Another wedding venue which many consider haunted is Thayer's Historic Bed and Breakfast in Annandale, Minnesota, which is owned by a psychic, Sharon Gammell. Thayer's specializes in interactive mystery dinners, ghost huntings, psychic readings and small weddings, which, if you choose, can be officiated by Gammell. Built in 1895, Thayer's Historic Bed and Breakfast is said to be the home of several ghosts, including the original owners, Caroline and Gus Thayer and some of their friends. And, for you cat lovers, Thayer's is also the home of three resident ghost cats (as well as some living cats).
Annandale is just a little over an hour's drive from the Twin Cities International Airport. For more information call 800-944-6595.
Wacky
For one of the wackiest wedding experiences, try Star Trek the Experience at the Las Vegas Hilton, where you can have your ceremony on the Bridge of the USS Enterprise 1701-D. You minister will perform your wedding ceremony dressed in Starfleet outfits while intergalactic wedding music plays in the background. Depending on the Wedding package you choose, you can have your choice of one to three Star Trek characters present at your wedding: Klingon, Ferengi or BORG.
You can also choose to have your wedding reception inside Quark's Bar or the Captain's Lounge, depending on the size of your wedding party. You can have your choice of different reception menus, but I'd definitely go for the Romulan Warbird, which is a marinated chicken breast served with wild rice pilaf and seasonal vegetables. Wedding cakes come with the Star Trek logo on them.
Hopefully some of the above wedding ideas will either appeal to you, or get you thinking about other creative and unique ways to celebrate your wedding. Maybe wet, wild and wacky weddings aren't your thing. Maybe eloping to Hawaii or Las Vegas is what you want. Whatever you decide to do, make it special.
Hawaii Weddings
Can you imagine anything more romantic than Hawaii weddings? Just thinking about tying the knot in paradise makes many people rush out to make it happen. How should you go about doing this? If you are interested in having a wedding in Hawaii than this is the article you need to read. In this article we will cover how to plan the perfect Hawaii weddings, and how to get the most out of having a wedding in Hawaii. Make no mistake after reading this article you will know everything you need to know about Hawaii weddings.
The Internet will provide you with all of the resources you need when it come to Hawaii weddings. You should first start with a search for a local wedding planner. They will have experience in booking reservations and flights to the island. If you are feeling adventurous you can always book the flight yourself online as well as the hotel reservations. Make sure that the hotel will have openings when you want to go, Hawaiian hotels book up months in advance so you may want to start your search there.
If you are budget conscious than maybe planning your nuptials around air fare deals and off-tourist times would be the best solution for you. Mid-April through Mid-June is considered off-season for Hawaii and is the prime time for deals on hotels and flights to the island. The weather is also the most beautiful during this time in Hawaii most tourist don’t get to experience this because they visit during the high season from mid-December to March. You can find great deals all over the island if you plan ahead. Who wouldn’t want a June wedding in Hawaii?
If you are taking a group of people with you, try and find a hotel that will give you a discount for the volume of your party. During the off-season you should have no trouble finding a hotel that can accommodate the number of guests in your party. You may have to book between to hotels depending on how many people are in your party. Whatever you do make it a point to find out in advance and have all confirmation emails well in advance of your trip. It would also be in a good idea to call the hotel and double-check your reservations while you’re at the airport.
Most hotels will have a “wedding package” including a place to hold the ceremony. This is the best option for many people, as the hotel will provide all of the food, beverages and even staff to make the day incredible. If this isn’t a concern for you, then perhaps a simple beach ceremony with a local justice of the peace is in order. Call in advance to find a J.O.P. that is willing to accommodate your request.
Hawaii weddings are truly special. This article covered how to plan the perfect Hawaii weddings, and how to get the most out of having a wedding in Hawaii. Now that you have read this article you know everything you need to know about Hawaii weddings.
BY Elle Wood
Friday, June 19, 2009
Selecting your gown and bridal shop
You will be the center of attention on your wedding day and you want your gown to be absolutely perfect. From the moment you begin to plan one of the greatest days of your life, you anticipate cherished memories - the selection of your gown should be a warm memory, not something you care to forget.
Choosing your gown also means choosing the right bridal shop. You will have different experiences from each shop and it is important to choose the one that will best meet all your needs such as selection, quality, delivery, customer service, follow-up, and personal attention. Above all remember you are the customer – the purchase of your wedding gown should entail receiving the highest quality of product and service.
Here are some tips to consider before purchasing your bridal gown:
First comes visiting several shops then comes your first impressions. Visit several bridal shops and compare your first impressions. Consider how you are greeted, the shop appearance, employee attention to your needs, and ask yourself how you feel you were treated. Trust your first impressions – they will be the foundation you can expect for the remainder of your dealings with the shop.
Customer Service. Different customers require different needs. Does your bridal shop meet your needs? The shop you choose should be actively listening to your needs and asking:
• do you have a wedding theme? and make suggestions on gowns and accessories that will best fulfill your theme
• where are you getting married and when? this will help your shop tie into your theme, season, and for deadlines to be met
• would you would like to explore different styles, colors, and fabrics for yourself and your attendants?
• what do you like and dislike?
• what are your deadline dates?
• do you have other attendants who can be helped that reside elsewhere? (your shop should be able to provide quality service to those who cannot physically visit the shop)
• and always…how else may we help you? for example, some shops offer after-hours and one-on-one appointments for convenience and privacy. Is your bridal shop associated with or do they recommend other quality wedding services you may be shopping for?
Discount Misconceptions. Let the buyer beware. Some discount bridal shops will offer the bride what appears to be a huge discount on the bridal gown – and it may very well be. What you will need to consider is the total price; too often your veil, jewelry, shoes, crinoline, and other accessory costs will well absorb any savings you made on the gown itself.
Before going to the alter consider the alterations. If you are on a tight budget, you will want to consider the cost to alter your gown. Many discount bridal vendors will offer a deal on the gown and after your purchase and commitment to have it altered – you may find that the alteration costs exceeded your gown budget.
One Venue equals piece of mind. Find out all the products and services your shop offers. Ask about shoes, veils, tiaras, jewelry, crinolines, purses, as well as gowns and accessories for the entire bridal party and mothers of the wedding gowns. Also ask if your shop offers services to members of your bridal party that may have special needs. Finding one or two reliable resources should keep things running smoothly when placing and receiving orders for the bride and bridal party.
Show me the money. Many bridal shops ask for your payment in full when you place your gown order. Before making any commitments to purchase your (or the bridal party’s) gowns ask for a copy of the shop’s purchase contract or policies. The bridal industry’s general policy is that once you order your gown it is non-returnable and non-refundable. If your budget doesn’t allow you to pay for the gown in full upfront – ask if your shop has an alternative payment plan; if not, you may want to consider another shop that will meet your financial needs.
Happily-ever-after. By being an educated consumer, you can be assured that your gown purchase will become another precious memory in your total wedding experience. Remember: You are the customer and this is your day - expect nothing less than the best of quality and service.
About the Author
By:
Valeri Dawes of TLC Bridal Boutique in Frederick, MD
Choosing your gown also means choosing the right bridal shop. You will have different experiences from each shop and it is important to choose the one that will best meet all your needs such as selection, quality, delivery, customer service, follow-up, and personal attention. Above all remember you are the customer – the purchase of your wedding gown should entail receiving the highest quality of product and service.
Here are some tips to consider before purchasing your bridal gown:
First comes visiting several shops then comes your first impressions. Visit several bridal shops and compare your first impressions. Consider how you are greeted, the shop appearance, employee attention to your needs, and ask yourself how you feel you were treated. Trust your first impressions – they will be the foundation you can expect for the remainder of your dealings with the shop.
Customer Service. Different customers require different needs. Does your bridal shop meet your needs? The shop you choose should be actively listening to your needs and asking:
• do you have a wedding theme? and make suggestions on gowns and accessories that will best fulfill your theme
• where are you getting married and when? this will help your shop tie into your theme, season, and for deadlines to be met
• would you would like to explore different styles, colors, and fabrics for yourself and your attendants?
• what do you like and dislike?
• what are your deadline dates?
• do you have other attendants who can be helped that reside elsewhere? (your shop should be able to provide quality service to those who cannot physically visit the shop)
• and always…how else may we help you? for example, some shops offer after-hours and one-on-one appointments for convenience and privacy. Is your bridal shop associated with or do they recommend other quality wedding services you may be shopping for?
Discount Misconceptions. Let the buyer beware. Some discount bridal shops will offer the bride what appears to be a huge discount on the bridal gown – and it may very well be. What you will need to consider is the total price; too often your veil, jewelry, shoes, crinoline, and other accessory costs will well absorb any savings you made on the gown itself.
Before going to the alter consider the alterations. If you are on a tight budget, you will want to consider the cost to alter your gown. Many discount bridal vendors will offer a deal on the gown and after your purchase and commitment to have it altered – you may find that the alteration costs exceeded your gown budget.
One Venue equals piece of mind. Find out all the products and services your shop offers. Ask about shoes, veils, tiaras, jewelry, crinolines, purses, as well as gowns and accessories for the entire bridal party and mothers of the wedding gowns. Also ask if your shop offers services to members of your bridal party that may have special needs. Finding one or two reliable resources should keep things running smoothly when placing and receiving orders for the bride and bridal party.
Show me the money. Many bridal shops ask for your payment in full when you place your gown order. Before making any commitments to purchase your (or the bridal party’s) gowns ask for a copy of the shop’s purchase contract or policies. The bridal industry’s general policy is that once you order your gown it is non-returnable and non-refundable. If your budget doesn’t allow you to pay for the gown in full upfront – ask if your shop has an alternative payment plan; if not, you may want to consider another shop that will meet your financial needs.
Happily-ever-after. By being an educated consumer, you can be assured that your gown purchase will become another precious memory in your total wedding experience. Remember: You are the customer and this is your day - expect nothing less than the best of quality and service.
About the Author
By:
Valeri Dawes of TLC Bridal Boutique in Frederick, MD
CHOOSING THE WEDDING GOWN
copyright ©2003 Glenna Tooman all rights reserved
Memory Makers Event Planning LLC www.memorable-events.com
The Bride's Gown and Accessories
The wedding gown is usually one of the first purchases made. However, before choosing a gown, you should determine what kind of a wedding you are having: large or small, formal or informal, indoor or out. You should also determine a budget. These things will affect the type of dress that you select. The dress should complement, not conflict with, the other decisions that have been made. In other words, if the wedding will be small and intimate with only a few guests, an elaborate gown with flowing train will be out of place. Likewise, a sleeveless or off-the-shoulder gown would be inappropriate in December unless the wedding will take place in a warm climate. If an outdoor wedding is planned, a gown without a train will be a better choice, unless you have your heart set on a particular dress and are willing to accept the fact that the train will get dirty and may become permanently stained. If you will be kneeling during your wedding ceremony, you may want to avoid a sheath gown, since the skirt may be too tight to allow you to bend your knees. And if you have a budget of $4,000, purchasing an $800 gown will consume a fifth of your funds.
If you would a gown with a train, you will find several styles available. Trains come in three lengths: a "sweep" train is very short, falling only about 6" behind the gown; a "chapel" train is from 7" to 22" long; and a "cathedral" train is over 22". Trains also attach to the gown in several ways. The most common is the "attached" train, which is actually an extension of the back of the skirt. A "watteau" train falls from the back yoke of the dress and is a separate piece of fabric. A "caplet" train falls from the shoulders and is also a separate piece of fabric. A "detachable" train is most often used with a sheath-style dress. The train is buttoned or hooked to the back of the dress and can be removed after the ceremony. Many trains can either be "bustled" or removed for the reception. A bustled train is one that is gathered up and buttoned or tied at the back, below the waist, thus creating a floor-length skirt all around.
When shopping for the gown, take only one or two people with you and be sure to dress appropriately. You should either wear or take along nylons, a strapless bra, and appropriate shoes. Don't show up at the bridal salon in sneakers, shorts, and a cap and expect any dress to look like it will on your wedding day. Be careful about wearing make-up, particularly lipstick or lip gloss, when trying on dresses, since they stain easily.
Most bridal shops carry each style of gown in only one size. Therefore, if you find a dress that you like, but it doesn't fit, it will need to be ordered, and that can take as long as 4 months. Also, be sure that the shop does alterations. The alterations should be done about two weeks before the wedding. Some shops charge for alterations, so be sure to ask. When attending an appointment for alterations, be sure to wear the shoes and the undergarments that you will wear with the gown so that it can be altered correctly.
Wedding gowns are sized smaller than other clothing. Therefore, if you ordinarily wear a size 8, don't be alarmed to discover that you may wear a size 10 or even a 12 in a wedding gown. Since most people are not one perfect size and wedding gowns are form-fitting, it will be necessary to choose a gown in a size that fits your largest body measurement. In other words, if you are a size 8 in the hips and bust but a size 10 through the waist, purchase the larger size and have it altered in the bust and hips. The alterations will be minimal and it is easier to make a dress smaller than to make it larger. Purchase a gown that fits your present size even if you plan to diet. Dresses can be cut down much easier than they can be enlarged. Be certain to find out if the shop will hold the dress until a day or two before the wedding and if they will press it just before it is picked up. If they do not hold the dress and/or press it, you will need to find room to store it until the big day and someone may have to spend several hours pressing it.
If the wedding will be held in a church, be aware that some conservative churches do not allow women to wear dresses, even wedding gowns, which are off-the-shoulder, sleeveless, or low-cut. This also applies to your bridesmaids dresses. Be sure to find out if your church has any restrictions before purchasing your gown or your attendants' dresses. Also ask about length, as there may be a restriction on skirts that are above the knee. You should not choose such short dresses for your attendants; however, your guest book attendant and other helpers who wear their own clothing, may need to be informed of any restrictions.
You may find it helpful to take a camera along when trying on gowns. You can take pictures of your favorite gowns at each shop, then compare the pictures to help remember the details of each dress and decide which one is right for you. Some shops will not allow their gowns to be photographed, so ask before taking pictures. You may have to assure them that you will not use the photo to have a seamstress make a similar gown.
Bridal Shop Alternatives: If your budget is tight, you might choose to rent rather than buy your gown, or to purchase a used gown. Some shops rent gowns for both the bride and her attendants. If you can find the right dress, this may be a good way to go. You will, however, need to reserve the dress well in advance, particularly if it is a popular style.
Some resale shops also sell gowns. A used gown may be a better choice than a rented one, especially if the rented dress has been worn numerous times and the used one worn only once. Former brides who broke their engagement often dispose of their dresses through resale shops and classified ads. You can find a new, never-worn dress for a fraction of the original price.
You may also find your gown or the attendants' dresses in a catalog. The J.C. Penney catalog usually carries at least one wedding gown. Catalogs such as Chadwicks carry dresses suitable for bridesmaids. Some department stores also carry one or two wedding gowns each summer.
Gowns are available on the Internet from a number of sites. Be careful about purchasing in this manner, since you have no guarantees of the quality of the dress and you may have difficulty returning it if it is poorly made or doesn't fit. You will also have to find a local seamstress to make any needed alterations and someone will have to press the gown.
E-bay, the Internet auction site, is another source for locating reasonably priced gowns, both for the bride and bridesmaids. Some gowns are sold by the owner and will have been worn. Others are sold by bridal shops who are disposing of their discontinued merchandise. Before making a purchase, find out the brand name of the gown, then do some checking, either on-line or by visiting local shops that carry that brand, to determine the quality of a typical gown. Also ask about stains, tears, or any other problems with the dress, since you are buying the dress "as-is."
If your mother, grandmother, or a friend has a gown that you particularly like, you might ask to borrow it. If you enjoy antiques or old clothing, vintage gowns dating back as far as the Victorian era can be purchased in retro clothing shops and on the Internet. Also, if your family has close ties to its national origins, a gown from that culture can be very striking and unusual. Some brides choose to wear a traditional western-style gown for the ceremony, then change to a national dress for the reception. Likewise, some men choose to wear kilts or other ethnic dress for either the ceremony, the reception, or both.
When the Bride is Marrying for the Second Time: If the bride is being married for the second time, she should choose a gown that does not have a long train and she should not wear a veil near her face. Rather, a tea-length or floor-length dress is more appropriate. It is now acceptable for a second time bride to wear a white gown. A hat, a wreath of flowers, a tiara, or another item can be worn in the hair, or the bride may choose not to wear any head covering. If a veil is worn, it should be short and be attached at the back of the head. A blusher that covers the face is worn only by first-time brides.
First-time Brides Who Have Children: The same etiquette applies to a first-time bride who has a child or children that applies to a bride who is marrying for the second time. She should choose a dress without a train, or with a very short one, and she should not wear a veil near her face.
Choosing the veil: When choosing a veil, consider both the style of your gown and the height of the groom. If the bride and groom are near the same height, a veil with a headpiece that fits snugly on the head, or fits on the back of the head, will look better than one that is taller. Veils can be made in many different lengths. The most popular are shoulder-length, elbow-length, and floor-length. A sheer, floor-length veil looks lovely with a gown that has a full skirt and a train, but it does not work as well with a fitted gown. Whether you choose to wear a blusher over the face is a matter of choice and will depend on the type of head piece chosen, since some head pieces are not made for a blusher. If you like to sew, veils are easy and inexpensive to make.
In summer, or for an outdoor or casual wedding, the bride may choose to wear a wreath of flowers or flowers in her hair instead of a veil. A tiara may also be worn in place of a veil or in addition to a short veil.
The bride's accessories: Several accessories will be needed to complete your ensemble. The first is a long-line bra, possibly strapless. Some brides choose not to purchase or wear a bra with their gown since the more formal gowns contain stiffening in the bodice. However, the gown will itch, and you will be standing in a receiving line or mingling with guests. You don't want to have to hold onto the front of your dress every time you get near someone. Health laws require that bras must be purchased; they cannot be rented. You can buy them at bridal shops or order them from catalogs, such as J. C. Penneys, usually at a lower cost. Special styles of bras, such as half bras, can also be found at lingerie specialty shops such as Victoria's Secret.
If the gown is a little large, or straps tend to show, you can purchase liquid adhesive, also called "body glue" from a medical supply store or from some bridal shops. The adhesive rolls on, like deodorant, and does not harm fabric. It can also be used to hold a half bra in place if your gown has a very low back.
A slip that matches the style of your gown will also be needed. A slip helps the skirt of your gown to lay properly and it will protect you from stiff seams that can irritate your skin. Crinoline slips may be rented from bridal shops. If your gown is made of light-weight material, be certain to wear a slip that is the same length as the gown. It can be embarrassing if guests can tell that you are wearing a short slip under a long dress. If a sheath-style gown is worn, a slip may not be necessary. Be certain, however, that panty lines don't show.
Remember that you will be on your feet for several hours at the ceremony and the reception, so comfortable shoes are a necessity. Many brides choose to wear ballet slippers. Others wear heels for the ceremony, then change to more comfortable shoes for the reception. If you are wearing new shoes, scuff the soles to roughen them a bit. This will prevent slips or falls during the ceremony. White shoes are most often sold by department and shoe stores in the spring. (They usually cost less when purchased at a department or shoe store rather than at a bridal shop.) If you are getting married at another time of the year, you may need to purchase your shoes through a bridal shop that carries white shoes year round. Also check Payless Shoes for some styles available year round.
Nylons should be either neutral in color or white. White patterned nylons look particularly nice with a sheath-style gown. Remember, you may be wearing a garter that will be removed during the reception, so choose nylons that you don't mind showing off. For easy removal, place the garter either just above or just below the knee. Many brides find that thigh-high nylons are very uncomfortable and tend to droop. Therefore, panty hose are usually a better choice. Even if you don't like nylons, wear them with your gown to give a finished look.
Jewelry should be understated and should complement the gown and your head piece. Simple earrings and a pearl necklace or a pendant will probably be all that is needed. Remove your watch and any rings and jewelry that you usually wear. If your wedding rings haven't yet been soldered together, move your engagement ring to your right hand until after the ceremony, when it can then be placed next to the wedding ring. (The wedding band is always worn closest to the heart.)
Hair Styles: The bride will want to begin working with a hair stylist at least a month before the ceremony. If the bride or her attendants plan to get a perm, it should be done about a month before the wedding so that the hair has time to relax and the person feels comfortable with the style.
Memory Makers Event Planning LLC www.memorable-events.com
The Bride's Gown and Accessories
The wedding gown is usually one of the first purchases made. However, before choosing a gown, you should determine what kind of a wedding you are having: large or small, formal or informal, indoor or out. You should also determine a budget. These things will affect the type of dress that you select. The dress should complement, not conflict with, the other decisions that have been made. In other words, if the wedding will be small and intimate with only a few guests, an elaborate gown with flowing train will be out of place. Likewise, a sleeveless or off-the-shoulder gown would be inappropriate in December unless the wedding will take place in a warm climate. If an outdoor wedding is planned, a gown without a train will be a better choice, unless you have your heart set on a particular dress and are willing to accept the fact that the train will get dirty and may become permanently stained. If you will be kneeling during your wedding ceremony, you may want to avoid a sheath gown, since the skirt may be too tight to allow you to bend your knees. And if you have a budget of $4,000, purchasing an $800 gown will consume a fifth of your funds.
If you would a gown with a train, you will find several styles available. Trains come in three lengths: a "sweep" train is very short, falling only about 6" behind the gown; a "chapel" train is from 7" to 22" long; and a "cathedral" train is over 22". Trains also attach to the gown in several ways. The most common is the "attached" train, which is actually an extension of the back of the skirt. A "watteau" train falls from the back yoke of the dress and is a separate piece of fabric. A "caplet" train falls from the shoulders and is also a separate piece of fabric. A "detachable" train is most often used with a sheath-style dress. The train is buttoned or hooked to the back of the dress and can be removed after the ceremony. Many trains can either be "bustled" or removed for the reception. A bustled train is one that is gathered up and buttoned or tied at the back, below the waist, thus creating a floor-length skirt all around.
When shopping for the gown, take only one or two people with you and be sure to dress appropriately. You should either wear or take along nylons, a strapless bra, and appropriate shoes. Don't show up at the bridal salon in sneakers, shorts, and a cap and expect any dress to look like it will on your wedding day. Be careful about wearing make-up, particularly lipstick or lip gloss, when trying on dresses, since they stain easily.
Most bridal shops carry each style of gown in only one size. Therefore, if you find a dress that you like, but it doesn't fit, it will need to be ordered, and that can take as long as 4 months. Also, be sure that the shop does alterations. The alterations should be done about two weeks before the wedding. Some shops charge for alterations, so be sure to ask. When attending an appointment for alterations, be sure to wear the shoes and the undergarments that you will wear with the gown so that it can be altered correctly.
Wedding gowns are sized smaller than other clothing. Therefore, if you ordinarily wear a size 8, don't be alarmed to discover that you may wear a size 10 or even a 12 in a wedding gown. Since most people are not one perfect size and wedding gowns are form-fitting, it will be necessary to choose a gown in a size that fits your largest body measurement. In other words, if you are a size 8 in the hips and bust but a size 10 through the waist, purchase the larger size and have it altered in the bust and hips. The alterations will be minimal and it is easier to make a dress smaller than to make it larger. Purchase a gown that fits your present size even if you plan to diet. Dresses can be cut down much easier than they can be enlarged. Be certain to find out if the shop will hold the dress until a day or two before the wedding and if they will press it just before it is picked up. If they do not hold the dress and/or press it, you will need to find room to store it until the big day and someone may have to spend several hours pressing it.
If the wedding will be held in a church, be aware that some conservative churches do not allow women to wear dresses, even wedding gowns, which are off-the-shoulder, sleeveless, or low-cut. This also applies to your bridesmaids dresses. Be sure to find out if your church has any restrictions before purchasing your gown or your attendants' dresses. Also ask about length, as there may be a restriction on skirts that are above the knee. You should not choose such short dresses for your attendants; however, your guest book attendant and other helpers who wear their own clothing, may need to be informed of any restrictions.
You may find it helpful to take a camera along when trying on gowns. You can take pictures of your favorite gowns at each shop, then compare the pictures to help remember the details of each dress and decide which one is right for you. Some shops will not allow their gowns to be photographed, so ask before taking pictures. You may have to assure them that you will not use the photo to have a seamstress make a similar gown.
Bridal Shop Alternatives: If your budget is tight, you might choose to rent rather than buy your gown, or to purchase a used gown. Some shops rent gowns for both the bride and her attendants. If you can find the right dress, this may be a good way to go. You will, however, need to reserve the dress well in advance, particularly if it is a popular style.
Some resale shops also sell gowns. A used gown may be a better choice than a rented one, especially if the rented dress has been worn numerous times and the used one worn only once. Former brides who broke their engagement often dispose of their dresses through resale shops and classified ads. You can find a new, never-worn dress for a fraction of the original price.
You may also find your gown or the attendants' dresses in a catalog. The J.C. Penney catalog usually carries at least one wedding gown. Catalogs such as Chadwicks carry dresses suitable for bridesmaids. Some department stores also carry one or two wedding gowns each summer.
Gowns are available on the Internet from a number of sites. Be careful about purchasing in this manner, since you have no guarantees of the quality of the dress and you may have difficulty returning it if it is poorly made or doesn't fit. You will also have to find a local seamstress to make any needed alterations and someone will have to press the gown.
E-bay, the Internet auction site, is another source for locating reasonably priced gowns, both for the bride and bridesmaids. Some gowns are sold by the owner and will have been worn. Others are sold by bridal shops who are disposing of their discontinued merchandise. Before making a purchase, find out the brand name of the gown, then do some checking, either on-line or by visiting local shops that carry that brand, to determine the quality of a typical gown. Also ask about stains, tears, or any other problems with the dress, since you are buying the dress "as-is."
If your mother, grandmother, or a friend has a gown that you particularly like, you might ask to borrow it. If you enjoy antiques or old clothing, vintage gowns dating back as far as the Victorian era can be purchased in retro clothing shops and on the Internet. Also, if your family has close ties to its national origins, a gown from that culture can be very striking and unusual. Some brides choose to wear a traditional western-style gown for the ceremony, then change to a national dress for the reception. Likewise, some men choose to wear kilts or other ethnic dress for either the ceremony, the reception, or both.
When the Bride is Marrying for the Second Time: If the bride is being married for the second time, she should choose a gown that does not have a long train and she should not wear a veil near her face. Rather, a tea-length or floor-length dress is more appropriate. It is now acceptable for a second time bride to wear a white gown. A hat, a wreath of flowers, a tiara, or another item can be worn in the hair, or the bride may choose not to wear any head covering. If a veil is worn, it should be short and be attached at the back of the head. A blusher that covers the face is worn only by first-time brides.
First-time Brides Who Have Children: The same etiquette applies to a first-time bride who has a child or children that applies to a bride who is marrying for the second time. She should choose a dress without a train, or with a very short one, and she should not wear a veil near her face.
Choosing the veil: When choosing a veil, consider both the style of your gown and the height of the groom. If the bride and groom are near the same height, a veil with a headpiece that fits snugly on the head, or fits on the back of the head, will look better than one that is taller. Veils can be made in many different lengths. The most popular are shoulder-length, elbow-length, and floor-length. A sheer, floor-length veil looks lovely with a gown that has a full skirt and a train, but it does not work as well with a fitted gown. Whether you choose to wear a blusher over the face is a matter of choice and will depend on the type of head piece chosen, since some head pieces are not made for a blusher. If you like to sew, veils are easy and inexpensive to make.
In summer, or for an outdoor or casual wedding, the bride may choose to wear a wreath of flowers or flowers in her hair instead of a veil. A tiara may also be worn in place of a veil or in addition to a short veil.
The bride's accessories: Several accessories will be needed to complete your ensemble. The first is a long-line bra, possibly strapless. Some brides choose not to purchase or wear a bra with their gown since the more formal gowns contain stiffening in the bodice. However, the gown will itch, and you will be standing in a receiving line or mingling with guests. You don't want to have to hold onto the front of your dress every time you get near someone. Health laws require that bras must be purchased; they cannot be rented. You can buy them at bridal shops or order them from catalogs, such as J. C. Penneys, usually at a lower cost. Special styles of bras, such as half bras, can also be found at lingerie specialty shops such as Victoria's Secret.
If the gown is a little large, or straps tend to show, you can purchase liquid adhesive, also called "body glue" from a medical supply store or from some bridal shops. The adhesive rolls on, like deodorant, and does not harm fabric. It can also be used to hold a half bra in place if your gown has a very low back.
A slip that matches the style of your gown will also be needed. A slip helps the skirt of your gown to lay properly and it will protect you from stiff seams that can irritate your skin. Crinoline slips may be rented from bridal shops. If your gown is made of light-weight material, be certain to wear a slip that is the same length as the gown. It can be embarrassing if guests can tell that you are wearing a short slip under a long dress. If a sheath-style gown is worn, a slip may not be necessary. Be certain, however, that panty lines don't show.
Remember that you will be on your feet for several hours at the ceremony and the reception, so comfortable shoes are a necessity. Many brides choose to wear ballet slippers. Others wear heels for the ceremony, then change to more comfortable shoes for the reception. If you are wearing new shoes, scuff the soles to roughen them a bit. This will prevent slips or falls during the ceremony. White shoes are most often sold by department and shoe stores in the spring. (They usually cost less when purchased at a department or shoe store rather than at a bridal shop.) If you are getting married at another time of the year, you may need to purchase your shoes through a bridal shop that carries white shoes year round. Also check Payless Shoes for some styles available year round.
Nylons should be either neutral in color or white. White patterned nylons look particularly nice with a sheath-style gown. Remember, you may be wearing a garter that will be removed during the reception, so choose nylons that you don't mind showing off. For easy removal, place the garter either just above or just below the knee. Many brides find that thigh-high nylons are very uncomfortable and tend to droop. Therefore, panty hose are usually a better choice. Even if you don't like nylons, wear them with your gown to give a finished look.
Jewelry should be understated and should complement the gown and your head piece. Simple earrings and a pearl necklace or a pendant will probably be all that is needed. Remove your watch and any rings and jewelry that you usually wear. If your wedding rings haven't yet been soldered together, move your engagement ring to your right hand until after the ceremony, when it can then be placed next to the wedding ring. (The wedding band is always worn closest to the heart.)
Hair Styles: The bride will want to begin working with a hair stylist at least a month before the ceremony. If the bride or her attendants plan to get a perm, it should be done about a month before the wedding so that the hair has time to relax and the person feels comfortable with the style.
Destination Wedding and Honeymoon Tips
article courtesy of AA Vacations (Claire Varrelmann, 972.830.2896)
Half a million couples will celebrate a destination wedding this year while 55 percent of couples have considered eloping because wedding plans have gotten out of hand! A four-day wedding weekend can cost less than a meal and reception for 150-200 people at a luxury hotel in New York.
Some of the leading destinations for weddings are:
~ Las Vegas, 100,000 weddings performed annually
~ Hawaii, 20,000 weddings performed annually
~ U.S. Virgin Islands, 5,100 weddings performed annually
~ Jamaica, 5,000 weddings performed annually
~ Bahamas, 4,000 weddings performed annually
The etiquette of a destination wedding generally calls for invited guests to pay their own airfare, while the bride and groom pick up the tab for the lodging, food, and beverages at an all-inclusive resort - but couples can now find alternatives to offer their guests discounts on hotels and flights.
Below are some tips and resources that are sure
to help couples plan a great destination wedding:
--- Remember to ask for hotel discounts for you and your guests - many times hotels will give discounts when you reserve a block of rooms at a time.
--- Look for generous wedding packages - American Airlines Vacations has developed a unique wedding travel package that offers up to 10 percent off published air fares, plus complimentary wedding invitations inserts to inform out-of-town guests of the discount. These special discounts are available when 10 or more out-of-town guests travel to a wedding. For more information try the Web site www.AAvacations.com.
--- For Brides Only: American Airlines offers a special wedding service desk (800) 545-8193.
--- American Airline's Web site, AA.com, offers special wedding packages to Vegas, including photography, music for the service, a wedding coordinator and flowers.
--- American Airline's Vacation Web site, www.AAvacations.com offers special packages for traveling couples for example:
------ Aruba: Atlantis Submarine Tour, excursion begins at Seaport Village Marina and once on the sub, the vessel submerges to 100-150 feet below the ocean to the Barcadera Reefs. Island Sightseeing Tour, full morning excursion by deluxe air-conditioned motorcoach where you'll visit the St. Anna Church, Natural Bridge, shop for souvenirs and more.
------ Cayman Islands: Stingray Snorkel Trip, an exciting three-hour tour includes Stingray Sandbar to interact (feed and play) with stingrays in their natural environment, Coral Gardens Reef and the Aquarium. Island Highlights Tour, includes a tour to Capital, an art gallery, Conch Shell House, Tortuga Rum Factory, along seven mile beach and the Cayman Turtle Farm.
General travel tips for couples prepping
for a honeymoon or destination wedding:
--- Busy brides can check-in up to 30 hours before a flight on American Airlines' Web site, AA.com. Couples can check in the night before a flight, print boarding passes and go directly to security in the morning.
--- Use flight status notification via voice or text messaging so loved ones have an easier time picking you up from the airport.
--- Make sure you know the legalities if you are planning a destination, especially if it out of the country.
--- If you plan on having a destination wedding, try to visit the destination once to finalize any details and to help you anticipate any potential problems.
Half a million couples will celebrate a destination wedding this year while 55 percent of couples have considered eloping because wedding plans have gotten out of hand! A four-day wedding weekend can cost less than a meal and reception for 150-200 people at a luxury hotel in New York.
Some of the leading destinations for weddings are:
~ Las Vegas, 100,000 weddings performed annually
~ Hawaii, 20,000 weddings performed annually
~ U.S. Virgin Islands, 5,100 weddings performed annually
~ Jamaica, 5,000 weddings performed annually
~ Bahamas, 4,000 weddings performed annually
The etiquette of a destination wedding generally calls for invited guests to pay their own airfare, while the bride and groom pick up the tab for the lodging, food, and beverages at an all-inclusive resort - but couples can now find alternatives to offer their guests discounts on hotels and flights.
Below are some tips and resources that are sure
to help couples plan a great destination wedding:
--- Remember to ask for hotel discounts for you and your guests - many times hotels will give discounts when you reserve a block of rooms at a time.
--- Look for generous wedding packages - American Airlines Vacations has developed a unique wedding travel package that offers up to 10 percent off published air fares, plus complimentary wedding invitations inserts to inform out-of-town guests of the discount. These special discounts are available when 10 or more out-of-town guests travel to a wedding. For more information try the Web site www.AAvacations.com.
--- For Brides Only: American Airlines offers a special wedding service desk (800) 545-8193.
--- American Airline's Web site, AA.com, offers special wedding packages to Vegas, including photography, music for the service, a wedding coordinator and flowers.
--- American Airline's Vacation Web site, www.AAvacations.com offers special packages for traveling couples for example:
------ Aruba: Atlantis Submarine Tour, excursion begins at Seaport Village Marina and once on the sub, the vessel submerges to 100-150 feet below the ocean to the Barcadera Reefs. Island Sightseeing Tour, full morning excursion by deluxe air-conditioned motorcoach where you'll visit the St. Anna Church, Natural Bridge, shop for souvenirs and more.
------ Cayman Islands: Stingray Snorkel Trip, an exciting three-hour tour includes Stingray Sandbar to interact (feed and play) with stingrays in their natural environment, Coral Gardens Reef and the Aquarium. Island Highlights Tour, includes a tour to Capital, an art gallery, Conch Shell House, Tortuga Rum Factory, along seven mile beach and the Cayman Turtle Farm.
General travel tips for couples prepping
for a honeymoon or destination wedding:
--- Busy brides can check-in up to 30 hours before a flight on American Airlines' Web site, AA.com. Couples can check in the night before a flight, print boarding passes and go directly to security in the morning.
--- Use flight status notification via voice or text messaging so loved ones have an easier time picking you up from the airport.
--- Make sure you know the legalities if you are planning a destination, especially if it out of the country.
--- If you plan on having a destination wedding, try to visit the destination once to finalize any details and to help you anticipate any potential problems.
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