A-Z In Wedding Planning

by Amy nutt

Many brides become exhausted and nervous before the wedding, because they fear that things are not going to go as planned. They worry about tripping over their gown, falling on their shoes, messing up their make-up, but most of all, they worry that they have forgotten something in the planning stages. In order to alleviate those fears, the bride and anyone who is helping with the planning can follow some tips to prevent anything from going wrong.

• Invest in a wedding planner book - available in all bookstores.

• Make a list of everything you need to do and at what stage of the planning process. This will depend upon the amount of time between the commencement of your engagement and the wedding. The more time you have, the less stressful the planning will be.

• Don't make the mistake of thinking you can do everything. Enlist the help of any friends and family who offer. Encourage your fiancé to join you in the planning process, especially with the guest list. It is his wedding, too, so he should not be exempt from helping with the decision-making.

• As you complete each task, cross it off your list and go on to the next thing. Remember to have a list of things that need to be completed before the wedding, as well as a list for those things you wish to confirm a few days before the wedding.

• If you're planning to have a band instead of just a disc jockey, allow enough time for auditions, unless you have heard the band. You don't want to hire someone who advertises a good price and then find out they do not play the music you want or are amateurish and not quite ready for professional gigs. You want to pay for talent, not someone who is just learning to perform.

It is difficult work to plan a wedding, but the more time you have to plan it, the less stressful it will be. Even if you have been dating for a long time and are in a hurry to make everything legal, don't rush into marriage. Enjoy your engagement and allow yourselves an opportunity to carefully plan your wedding. By taking your time instead of rushing, you stand less chance of forgetting something, and you can take your time obtaining quotes and locating all of the things you need for your wedding.

For wedding planning ideas, the Internet is a great source of information. In lieu of a wedding planner, many sites offer complete wedding planning without the expense of someone planning the event for you. You can buy everything from invitations to decorations and even wedding attire. In addition, you can plan your wedding trip and not even have to leave your home. That makes the process more relaxing, less tiresome, and allows you to plan everything when you are free to do so without worrying about store hours. Planning your wedding online leaves you with little to do in person except for choosing your dress and confirming deliveries such as flowers, food, and even the photographer.