PLANNING YOUR HONEYMOON

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Planning your honeymoon can be one of the most enjoyable parts of the wedding planning process as you dream of exotic locations, relaxing on the beach, or zipping down a snow-covered mountain on skis.
Planning should begin right after you become engaged, especially if a foreign trip is planned. First, you will need to choose a destination. Then, you should decide whether you want to plan the trip yourself or engage the services of a travel agent. If planning a foreign trip or a cruise, it is highly recommended that you use the services of a travel agent who is knowledgeable about travel to the area that you plan to visit. A travel agent will be able to make reservations at hotels or resorts, arrange for car rentals and other travel accommodations, and advise on foreign currency exchange, required vaccinations, local customs, and other important issues. Travel agents also may have travel packages that are less expensive than planning a trip yourself.

When choosing a honeymoon destination, remember that many places offer reduced rates during their off-season. Ski resorts are great places to visit in the late spring, summer, or fall. A visit to the coast can be planned for winter, spring, or fall if you don't plan to swim or surf. Not only will the rates be less, but hotels and resorts will be less crowded.

If you plan to travel outside the U.S., you may need to obtain a passport and possibly one or more visas. The U.S. State Department provides information about most countries and their requirements on the Department's Internet site. The site can be accessed at http://travel.state.gov/.

It is not necessary to have a passport to travel to Canada. However, you must carry proof of citizenship, such as a certified copy of your birth certificate, your naturalization certificate, or green card. You must also carry at least one form of photo identification with you.

If traveling by air, reservations should be made well in advance in order to obtain the best rates. With the change to ticketless boarding procedures, you will be required to provide photo identification when checking in. Be certain to book your reservations in the same name as that on your ID. This is particularly important for the bride. Do not use your new married name on your airline tickets unless you carry your marriage license with you.

No matter where you travel, be sure to leave an itinerary with someone at home who can find it quickly if necessary. Include the names and phone numbers, if possible, of places you will be staying. If traveling outside the US, leave a photocopy of your passports, visas, and driver's licenses. Also list the numbers of all credit cards and travelers checks that you plan to take with you. That way, should a loss or theft occur, the information needed to report it can be quickly secured. Also, place your name and phone number inside each piece of luggage as well as on the outside. That way, if a luggage tag is lost, the airline can still locate you. Since you will be traveling, you may want to use the phone number and/or address of a parent, your office, or someone that you know will be at home, should a bag be lost and an airline needs to contact someone immediately.

Planning the honeymoon can be an exciting time to explore locations and ideas, limited only by your imagination and your budget. Whether you choose to take an exotic foreign trip or visit a nearby resort, you will want to begin planning early to be sure you get just the trip that you want. Bon Voyage!

5 Ways to Test Him Before Your Wedding Day

by Jhong Ren

Yesterday, I had a dinner gathering with my best of friends and one of my friends' sister will be getting married really soon.
It will be about 2 months before their big wedding day.
They have bought an apartment in the extreme west side of Singapore and the place is currently undergoing its renovation.

However, this is not the point.
My friend mentioned to me that his future brother-in-law had in fact told his future wife to quit her job.
And he didn't even say "Hi" to the family members who answered his call to my friend's house. He just bluntly asked for his wife and hanged up if she was not available.

Hmm, it is very interesting observation before their wedding. I know of how some people change their attitude towards the in-laws and their families only after their wedding day but not before.

The two issues that we could discuss here are about how some men behaves before their wedding days: 1. Asking his wife to quit the job 2. Being respectful to soon-to-be spouse's family members

I'm not sure how many women had sacrificed their jobs because their husbands said so. I will never ever request my wife to quit her job. If she doesn't like it, she can quit. However, if she really love it, I am going to support her all I can.

I know of some husbands who require their new homes to be near to their parents' homes. And this is one of the reason why my friend's sister have to move to the extreme west area.
My friend mentioned to me that his sister has been doing quite well in her current job and there is no way she is going to change her career.
In addition to that, the husband specifically chose their new home to be near where he is working. Oh, what a "gentleman"!!?

I think it is really hard to come to a compromise where to stay. It is not just the decision between the husband and wife. It includes the families from both sides, especially the parents.
Being Chinese, we don't really openly express our actual opinions. Likewise for our parents, they will use their children as messengers who will bring message to the family of the other side.

Secondly, for the fact that this man doesn't really make it an effort to say "Hi" to the family members, somehow tells me that he doesn't really respect them.
He could have just say "Hello" and perhaps, out of politeness, ask the family member how he or she is. The conversation may not necessary last for an hour or so but just a mere few minutes of friendly exchanges of words of concern.

I have heard of stories of men who pretended to be really "nice" to the in-laws to be just to win not their daughter's heart but the in-laws' hearts. It is really sad indeed!
I have been thinking for the whole day, "What if my future son-in-law can be like that?"
How should I test him?

These are my 5 Ways to Test Him Before Their Wedding Day: 1. Call him that I'm not well and see if he is willing to take me for my doctor's appointment 2. Watch him how he take care of my daughter when she is well 3. Watch him how he take care of my daughter when she is unwell 4. Watch him how he treats old people 5. Watch him how he treats children